How to Make a Guy Fall in Love With You

 

How to Make a Guy Fall in Love With You

1. Show him that you respect and admire him.

A man wants a woman who just "gets" him. He wants her radiance and femininity to draw him in the way his masculine energy attracts her. He wants a woman who appreciates his ability to protect, provide and solve problems. He wants her to admire him for his steadiness and sense of calm under pressure.

He doesn't want to feel emasculated because he's way more logical and analytical and doesn't (necessarily) cry at sappy movies.

In short, he wants a woman who sees him as the hero he's always wanted to be — and when you really get that you just might be shocked at how heroic he truly is in his heart and soul. Ladies, that is the real greatness of a man. For the right reason or cause, he would literally die for you. Now if that's not a hero, what is?

2. Don’t try to change him.

Now when it comes to "getting" your man, there is one thing you must not do if you want a man to love you and see a future with you. Do not treat him like some kind of project that needs to be fixed because it immediately brings up the walls.

If you have the urge to try to change his clothes, his circle of friends, the way he talks, what he loves to do — don't do it! Just move on and find someone you can respect and appreciate just the way he is right now. If he wants your help, he'll ask for it.

The right guy for you deserves to feel like he's your hero. If you can't offer that, he's not your guy.

3. Show him gratitude.

A man has two primary gifts he can offer a woman: his ability to protect and provide. So if he is willing to risk his life to protect yours and invest his time, talent, and treasure in order to provide for you, all he really wants is a little gratitude in return.

Men like women who can appreciate that he works hard to take care of you even if he can't give you everything he'd like. That's really not a lot to ask. So if you want a guy to see the very best in you and fall hopelessly in love, the one thing you can't do is take him for granted or disrespect his efforts.

4. Genuinely care for him.

If it's up to a man to protect and provide for his woman and family, what is it that he wants and needs from her in return? Simply put, a woman's beauty and grace attract a man and are often demonstrated in her innate ability as a nurturer or caretaker.

Now before you attack that idea as sexist, we're really just talking about two people who come together to love, care for and make each other's life even better by forming a cooperative partnership here. The real beauty of a relationship is when two people come together with a desire to give rather than just take. That's when the magic is unleashed.

5. Be optimistic and allow yourself to love and be loved in return.

Despite what you may think or your past experience — you may never know just how much a man really does want to please you if he is able. In fact, the problems show up when he no longer thinks he can please you.

Men are very simple creatures. They demonstrate their value by solving problems and fixing things (and occasionally they may make the mistake of trying to fix you).

Plus, nothing makes a man feel worse than to feel stuck in a problem he just can't solve so if you're unhappy too often, at some level, he's failed and he will try to distance himself from feeling like a failure.

By contrast, nothing makes a man feel successful like you when you are happy — which is why a positive, happy, and radiant woman with a sense of humor is so appealing.

6. Always have his back.

When it comes to true demonstrations of masculine energy and the code it lives by, the concept of honor is practically inseparable from the ideal.

Whether it's warriors on the battlefield or symbolic "warriors" on the playing field, having your partner's back is the difference between winning and losing or even life and death. A man has got to trust that you're on his team and have his back, otherwise, he will never commit.

7. Don't smother him.

If there is one area I see women mess up time and again, it's in trying to define a relationship or tie a man down too soon. That's because her need to feel "safe" is in direct contrast to his innate desire for freedom and not being tied down.

If you think about it, every soldier anywhere who has ever been killed in action has died trying to defend their idea of freedom.

8. Be yourself

It’s crucial to stay true to yourself in a world where anyone can create a false identity with just a smartphone and a social media account.As corny as it may sound, you are the only person in the world, so embrace that. Do not let social media or peer pressure cause you to adopt a different personality.

9. Understanding him

Understanding is the cornerstone of every successful relationship. Finding common ground and fostering tolerance is only possible when two people in a relationship understand each another.

Therefore, try understanding your boyfriend if you’re a lady reading this. This could entail paying attention to his behaviour and emotions, getting him to open up about his likes and dislikes, and making a list of his strengths and weaknesses. You have a better chance of preserving a healthy, conflict-free relationship if you do this.

Additionally, trust us when we say that men prefer to marry women who get them.

10. Be yourself

It’s crucial to stay true to yourself in a world where anyone can create a false identity with just a smartphone and a social media account.

As corny as it may sound, you are the only person in the world, so embrace that. Do not let social media or peer pressure cause you to adopt a different personality.

While it may appear men favour women with fake personalities, the truth is that when it comes to choosing a wife, men prefer someone genuine and proud to be herself.

Don’t be afraid to express your true feelings and live your truth if you’re dating a guy. As a result, you become closer and speak more.

11. Communicate more

Without communication, what exactly is a relationship? Try to communicate with your boyfriend frequently, either by calling or texting.

Though it might seem like your boyfriend should always check in on you, you should occasionally make the call to check on him. Doing this shows him that you genuinely care about him.

Furthermore, let’s face it, all men desire to be taken care of, even if this requires them getting married.

12. Trust him

One of the reasons relationships do not lead to marriage or fail within their first year is a lack of trust. When you date your boyfriend, and there is no trust between you two, it will only worsen when you get married. So start to try to have more faith in him, deliberately.

For instance, if you are the type of girlfriend who has trouble believing your boyfriend when he says he is working late, take some time to consider how you can have faith in his honesty. In a way, it demonstrates your love for him and that you believe everything he says to be accurate, assuring him that there would not be any third-party conflicts.

13. Embrace his family, friends, and hobbies,

Always remember that when you marry a man, you also indirectly marry his family and friends. Because of this, you must embrace them and build a strong bond with them.

Listen, there’s a good chance that despite his willingness to propose, your boyfriend is reluctant because he worries about how you might treat his family and friends. However, if you are friendly and welcoming to them, it will give him the confidence to provide you with his last name.

Additionally, you could make an effort to support his interests. For instance, even though you may find football appealing, you could keep your boyfriend company while he watches a game whenever he has friends over..

14.  Regularly give him space 

Every guy wants time alone. We all need our personal space, and it’s better if you can give that to him without him having to ask for it or beg you. Do it naturally, and he will appreciate you and think you are marriage material.

15. Be financially dependent 

 It can help a man to know that you aren’t going to take every last penny he has.Some men fear marriage, because they are afraid of losing all of their money (in a divorce, or even just because of a wife’s spending).

16. Compliment him

17. Accept responsibility in a fight 

Every relationship has its moments where they are disagreements and fights.The difference between a healthy relationship that encourages a man to marry you, and an unhealthy marriage that pushes a man away is this: blame or responsibility.

18. Don’t be afraid to draw the lines 

19. Take his problem solving advice 

20. Disagree without disappointment

There will be differences, BUT the main issue is how you HANDLE the differences between each other.If you handle disagreements by arguing and becoming disappointed when you don’t take his side, you are showing him that you are emotionally immature. But, if you disagree without feeling disappointed, you show him that you can respect his opinion, even if you don’t think its right for you. 

21. Evaluate yourself regularly 

A guy doesn’t always want to have to point out everything that you’re doing wrong, or your flaws, or mistakes…because you are completely oblivious to them and have to ask him what’s wrong. Evaluate yourself regularly to ensure you are improving and are moving forward internally and externally.

22.  Show him that you can let things go 

23. Prove you are committed 

Stay with him mentally, physically, and intimately no matter what.

24. Challenge him 

He wants someone who can challenge him in all kinds of ways, such as challenging him to change or be better, challenging him to keep your interest etc… This keeps him glued to you, instead of having him interested in other women. If he doesn't want you don't want tell him and challenge him to change.

25. Be sexually pleasing 

Sex can become pretty boring, especially if you always do the same things over and over…which is a HUGE problem, because intimacy is important in a long-term relationship.  Make unexpected moves during sex and ask him what his fantasies are, learn new tricks in bed, and ultimately surprise and encourage him there, so that he feels like you’re someone who he could stay with and marry…because you don’t disappoint him in the bedroom.

26. Be honest 

Remember that honesty is accepted, and even if it hurts its temporary…but lies are REJECTED, and is permanent pain, because they take away his trust in you.

27. Trust him with your personal things

28. Accept him 

29. Surprise him 

The element of surprise in a relationship keeps him interested and gives him a reason to stick around for the long run, because it shows that you still have lots left to offer that he doesn’t even know about.

30. Be stubborn at times

Guys love stubborn and respectful girlfriend, someone that can challenge him.